Oct 26, 2020
Leanne Hoffman
Oct 26, 2020
I started out my career in HR, training and development. After a number of years, I knew that I wanted to focus more on one-to-one work and to really get hold of some of the things that got in the way of people performing. And of course, to do the same for myself. So, I retrained as a psychodynamic psychotherapist whilst continuing to work part-time.
Sometimes I felt a bit of a tension; what worked best, did people or I benefit more from therapy or coaching? The answer can obviously never be that simple and of course both have their place; some people have a preference, and others like myself have received and practice as both. The famous quote by Socrates "The unexamined life is not worth living" is something that both coaching and therapy address.
Five years ago, I set up HealthyMinds@Work with two friends who were also psychotherapists. We were becoming increasingly aware that some of the insights and tools that we covered in therapy would be of real use in organisations. We saw that in therapy, a lot of the time was spent thinking about struggles with work, managers and group dynamics. We felt that there could be effective ways of preventing some of these issues landing in therapy when things had been allowed to become chronic; we wanted to take therapeutic ideas out to a wider audience.
This led us to blend a psychodynamic approach into coaching and supervision and we now work in this way with safeguarders, head teachers, teachers, and leaders in a variety of not for profit and commercial settings.
Coaching in comparison to therapy is a structured conversation where the coach helps the coachee set goals, explore what is currently happening, think about options or barriers or better ways of doing things, and action plan what needs to be done. It relies on the coachee taking responsibility for this form of problem solving. The results can be profound.
One client I have been working with for five years has grown their profit five times and tripled their employees. In the coaching sessions we worked together on the following areas to support the expansion of the company and ensure she did not get burnt out: leading a team, restructuring and increasing personnel, setting challenging goals for the business, creating a culture to increase profit, moral, retention and ownership.
I think therapists can make exceedingly good coaches! We have transferable skills around listening, showing empathy, asking really good questions, helping people reflect and make sense of their worlds, challenging thinking and decisions, and providing new perspectives. In addition to this many, if not all, issues at work have an emotional component, and therapists are used to helping people build awareness of their emotional responses, make sense of them and manage them better.
In organisations there is a greater demand for leaders to have emotional intelligence, and the training that therapists receive puts them in a unique place to do this as coaches. In addition, working with a psychodynamic approach further helps people explore group dynamics, what they bring to relationships, how their former ways of relating impact relationships and group working. They examine even more about themselves and how they work with others.
Nita is overworked, stressed by the pressures of too much work. She is often told by her fellow colleagues that she needs to get a better work life balance though Nita loves spending time at work and this is her focus.
In the initial session with Nita I get her to use the Wheel of Life tool to work out what segments of her life are important, how happy she is with each of these, what are her priorities, what makes her happy and productive and needs to be in place to perform well. We also go through a number of questions to get Nita to reflect on her career to date, what she wants in terms of her career and what she wants to achieve through the coaching.
In coaching it is important to start with SMART goals that can be measured, something that I do in a much looser way in therapy!
In the second session we work through the Wheel of Life, creating an action plan of what Nita wants to do to set boundaries, fill her tank of resilience and design her work life balance. Nita wants to be as productive and effective in her job, not get burnt out but is keen for work to be the priority.
In the third session we tackle Nita's stress at work. I take Nita through the GROW model see below plus introduce a cognitive behavioural therapeutic tool, the ACB model. The questions below are the coaching questions I would ask the coachee:
What are your goals for this session or for managing your stress better? e.g. I want to sleep better, not overeat as result of stress, learn what makes me stressed and how to reduce my stress.