Stress

Stress is the feeling you have when you are under pressure, emotionally or mentally. Some stress is inevitable in life, and some people say they thrive on stress, as it motivates them. However, prolonged exposure to stress is a genuine health concern that can lead to far more serious problems such as depression or anxiety or physical problems such as high blood pressure.

The pressures of everyday life, often revolving around work, can be blamed for the increase in stress levels.

Major life changes and transitions are also usually stressful, even if they are not negative: a new baby, getting married, moving house, for example.

Because stress is common, many people feel they have to live with it, not understanding the impact stress could have on their general health. There are many things that be done to reduce stress, that will make for a much easier, relatively stress-free life.

Burnout, a state of mental, emotional and physical exhaustion specifically related to the working environment, is now recognised by the WHO as an "occupational phenomenon". By putting constant pressure on ourselves, people find themselves in 'survival mode' with very little energy and no access to satisfaction or pleasure. Burnout can lead to physical and psychological breakdown.

Culturally in the UK, we see examples of 'stress bragging', where divulging your levels of stress has a competitive edge.

Symptoms of stress

Stress can affect how you feel and how your body works. We all have pressures in life; the key question is how you cope with those pressures. Here are some symptoms that may indicate that stress is becoming a problem:

  • digestive problems
  • loss of appetite
  • adrenalin rushes, indicating that the "fight or flight" hormone is being activated more than normal
  • difficulty concentrating
  • problems falling asleep
  • worrying about decisions or unwillingness to plan for the future
  • headaches
  • aching muscles
  • drinking more alcohol than usual

Psychologist Vincent Deary on the causes of burnout and fatigue

"Try to build some physical activity into your day, and explore relaxation techniques such as yoga"

What you can do to help yourself

Short-term stress is something that we all have to live with sometimes. If there is a big job on at work, or Christmas is around the corner, we will accept that we need to devote more time and energy to getting everything done in time. But it's important that we know our limits, especially around work.

Research has shown that lengthening the working week past 40 hours does not increase productivity; the extra hours are used to clean up the mistakes. So the first step is to try to avoid taking on more work than you can healthily deal with.

The following are some tips for keeping stress at bay:

  • try to build some physical activity into your day
  • explore relaxation techniques such as mindfulness meditation or yoga
  • learn to switch off your smartphone at least two hours before you go to bed; leave your work duties at work
  • make some time for yourself
  • notice unhealthy habits: alcohol, cigarettes, drugs, too much coffee and then work on reducing them
  • rethink your life-work balance
  • a good night's sleep is important. If you have trouble sleeping, try herbal remedies

Psychologist Amber Johnson explains the stress response and the mind-body connection

How counselling can help with stress

Stress is not a mental illness, but it can tip the balance of your psychological wellbeing. Some people will find that following stress-busting tips and having good discipline around self-care will help alleviate the strain, but others may find that they need more.

Talking to a non-judgmental, trained, professional therapist can help you find the best way out of a stressful way of living and into a different, more healthy lifestyle.

Some therapists specialise in working with burnout or work-related stress, and many others have previous careers working in high-pressure environments and so can understand if you are overwhelmed at work.

Last updated August 20 2024

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