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Gary McFarlane

EMDR counsellor
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About Me

I am a Relate trained and experienced Relationship Counsellor, Mediator, Sex Therapist, Sex Addiction and Love Addiction Therapist (including support for impacted partners). All undertaken by Zoom and Bilateralbase with clients from all parts of the country and the world. I am trained in online counselling and have worked Online for 14 years. I am an Accredited EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) practitioner working with PTSD, Trauma & Complex Trauma. I supervise Therapists.

Gary has created what may be the world’s first comprehensive Online webinar Sex/porn/love addiction Video-on-Demand Recovery Programme, being used by many clients throughout the world.

In July 2023 he launched a comprehensive Video-on-Demand Online Course (for Singles Pre-Married prep, Partnerships, Couples, Marrieds, long, long time Marrieds/Partners) bringing together is experience with hundreds of Singles and couples over 19 years and a few books written on the subjects.

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Issues often worked with

Interpersonal relationships
Addiction
Couple relationships
Sexual problems
Trauma
Affairs/betrayals
Attachment disorder
Complex PTSD
Divorce
Intimacy
Marriage
Sex addiction

Therapy offered

By phone
On video
By email

Client groups

Adult
Group
Couples

Fees

COUNSELLING SERVICE FEES Depends on issue: Sex Addiction, Singles/Couples, Sex Therapy or EMDR

“Sexual Addiction requires a specialist with extensive experience in this area to establish the correct diagnosis. Sexual addiction is very treatable but it's vital to first make the correct diagnosis”.

Gross Joint/sole income                           Sum Payable


Up to £23,999 per annum                            £57 -  £65  
£24,000-£27,999 per annum                        £60 - £68            
£28,000-£31,999 per annum                        £62 -£72            
£32,000-£34,999 per annum                        £64 - £76          
£35,000-£39,999 per annum                        £66 - £82        
£40,000-£49,999 per annum                        £72 - £88
£50,000-£74,999 per annum                        £80 - £112
£75,000-£84,999 per annum                        £102 - £167
£85,000 and over                                          £145 - £195

 

EMDR is £135 for 90 minutes and I work with payment for blocks.

Please be aware that The Kairos Centre is registered for VAT purposes. Fees shown are inclusive of VAT   

Training and qualifications

Gary McFarlane LLM, BA, Postgrad Dip in Couple Counselling, Cert in Psychosexual Therapy, Cert in Sex Addiction, Cert in Psychosexual Therapy, Cert in Sex Addiction & Compulsivity, Cert in Couple Counselling; Cert in EMDR. I was formerly a Solicitor.

I am a member of the Association of Christian Counsellors (ACC) by whom I am accredited; the National Counselling and Psychotherapy Society (NCPS) - Accredited;  and the Association for the Treatment of Sexual Addiction & Compulsivity (ATSAC). I am a member of stopSO. I lead seminars and workshops, group workshops, lecture and write books (available on Amazon and Google Books), covering all aspects of relationships and factors which contribute to disharmony in self and relationships, whether for singles, couples or groups - including sex therapy, conflict management and resolution/mediation, sex addiction and love addiction therapy.

I run a female partners of male sex addicts group from time to time; as well as train Therapists to work with Sex, Porn, Love Addiction and supervise them.

Verified professional membership

The National Counselling and Psychotherapy Society EMDR Association UK and Ireland Association of Christian Counsellors

My articles

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