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What's the Connection Between Shame and Low Self-Esteem?

What's the Connection Between Shame and Low Self-Esteem?

May 10, 2018

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Nakita Jangra

Nakita Jangra

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    • To keep low self-esteem at bay, we may try to manufacture high self-esteem but, says therapist Nakita Jangra, this can often fuel our shame
    • We have therapists who specialise in working with shame and self-esteem - find them here

Having high self-esteem means:

  • being able to value ourselves
  • knowing we are worthy
  • respecting ourselves
  • having confidence in our opinions and abilities
  • knowing that we matter
  • and being able to take a level of constructive criticism without it feeling like a personal attack

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Nakita Jangra

Nakita Jangra is a therapist
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