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Melissa Clarke

Counsellor, Therapist, Psychotherapist

Norwich, NR7 8UL

Verified therapist

About me

I am a 43-year-old Accredited Psychotherapist from California with experience in a variety of work settings with clients ranging from general to severe difficulties. I apply an integrative approach using psychoanalytic and CBT skills and will adapt my approach accordingly using a relational model that suits the client’s individual needs. My clients have ranged from vulnerable children and adults acquiring attention for extreme behavioral problems, to those looking for lifestyle and well-being maintenance or more general counseling. I have worked extensively with anxiety and depression, mood regulation, distress tolerance, and attachment difficulties. My counseling practice serves to oversee their emotional and psychological well-being through a nurturing and supportive role. Having maintained a private practice and working in recovery and social services, I understand the importance of organization and maintaining healthy relationships with clear boundaries. I administer referrals, organize funding requests, and set up assessments in the step care process of an individual’s needs. Employment History: 2021-2025 Private Practice April 2020 – 2021 INNOVATE SERVICES Edge of Care unit (Medway Council) Therapeutic Parent Practitioner and Counselling Support •Talking Therapy: A chance for them to express their concerns and feel supported and validated empathically •Psychodynamic relational modelling and challenging •Bi-weekly Anxiety and Depression inventory (PHQ9/GAD7) to monitor emotional health and resilience levels •CBT skills on effective communication and thought processing management + take-home toolkit (“how you think determines how you feel and how you behave”) •Supporting complex mental health difficulties and co-morbid conditions including depression, anxiety, trauma, conduct disorder, borderline traits, narcissistic personality traits, ADHD, memory loss, attachment disorder, self-harm •Mindfulness based activities •Distress Tolerance/Emotional Dysregulation management •Needs List: description on individual’s needs to facilitate understanding and enable support •Therapeutic Parenting: PACE model /Role Play/Resilience testing/communication dialogue emphasising tone and rhythm •Mediation Sessions- between parents and adolescents who are LAC children (looked after children) by the local authority •Mediation Sessions – couples •Asserting professional opinion to strategy and review meetings •Setting up Psychiatric Assessments and relevant forms undertaken by child, parent, their social community, and education system •General administration tasks: Word, Excel, note taking, clinician liaising, research •Safeguarding adults and adolescents •Supporting Parents through anxieties around social services intervention •Creating a step care plan for adolescents in foster care to return to their families 09/2016-present FLEXI-POP-INS LIMITED Counselling Child Service Providers to • Safeguard effectively • Oversee the emotional welfare for children and adolescents • Implement clear boundaries and consequences • Communicate effectively with families about their children • Develop active listening skills to help regulate and mediate the child’s daily routine • Develop awareness to notice a child or parent’s non-verbal communication in order to help assist with the well-being for each family • Recognise the limitations and strengths with an individuals’ child development • Focus on tailoring activities towards the child’s individual strengths • Organise activity/routine planning 09/2016-Present Private Practice Psychotherapist/Counsellor Plus Guidance Website: Online Counselling (50-minute session with clients between ages 18-40) PRIVATE PRACTICE: • Anxiety • Abandonment Issues • Attachment Issues • Dissociative issues • Depression • Body dysmorphia • Sexual abuse • Trauma • Substance misuse • General anxiety • Panic and stress • Feelings isolation • Fluctuation-highs and lows • Relational confusion • Boundary dysfunction • Identity confusion • LGBTQ Personality Disorders -BPD/ NPD Agencies: 10/ 2015-August 2016 WESTMINSTER DRUG PROJECT • Talking therapy and listening support for client’s emotional and mental states whilst they were undergoing rehabilitation forsubstance misuse • Safeguarding Reports • Helped clients identify patterns with their day to day routine and assisted routine restructuring (including nutrition) • Identified unhelpful attachments and helped clients form new positive attachments • Employed psychoanalytic techniques for clients who were able and ready to reflect on their history • Helped clients identify forms of abuse • Formed clear boundaries in my relationships with clients teaching them to form boundaries in their environment • Monitored anxiety levels and psychological dissociations that contributed to more misuse • Empowered clients to incorporate self-help techniques outside of the therapy room going forward 01/2014-June 2015 LIFELINE HACKNEY • Offered clients listening support and talking therapy • Helped clients understand how they view their sense of self through the Sand Box technique (Art Therapy) • Behaviour modification (introduced CBT articles on self-esteem) helping clients recognise core beliefs that cause their mental and emotional state to spiral • Practised mindfulness techniques for clients to use during moments of anxiety • Helped clients understand their role of personal responsibility • Used psychodynamic techniques to interpret transferences and defences • Used psychoanalytic techniques to assist the client in understanding how their difficulties came to be 04/2014-August2014 TURNING POINT-Transport House • Worked creatively with clients using art therapy (Brick Wall Method, Music & Mindfulness) • Active listening using the Blank Slate method so clients could feel heard without any external influencing from therapist • Helped clients understand the psychological effects playing on their psyche due to the use of substances • Role Play Method • Re-Parenting method • Alcohol and drug awareness training

Speaks

 English

Type of sessions available

By phone

Online

Areas of expertise

Anxiety

Depression

Anger

Couple relationships

Emotional abuse

Childhood difficulties

Attachment disorder

Complex PTSD

Dissociation

Self-esteem

Finding meaning

Shame

Fees

Average session fee:

£55.00

Fee structure

couples = £90 Adolescents = £75

My working schedule

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Therapy offered

Person-centred/humanistic

Cognitive behaviour therapy (CBT)

Psychodynamic

Mindfulness

Integrative

Transactional analysis

Client groups

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Adults

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Couples

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Adolescents

Training and qualifications

Educational History: MSc Mental Health Science MBACP Degree in Counselling CPCAB Diploma in Therapeutic Counselling Certificate in Safeguarding Children & Young People MBACP member

Verified professional membership

British Association for Counselling & Psychotherapy

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