Mary Aaron Integrative psychotherapist , CM15
Welcome to the Relationship Hub.
So what can counselling for do for you?
What do you know about counselling?
I was asked what my niche was, well organically my niche has become everything relationship, relationships are my passion, I work with individuals and couples in all kinds of relationships, presenting with all kinds of issues, The most common issues I work with are: disconnection from others, Lack of intimacy, infidelity, money issues, no time with or for the relationship/s, inability to be heard, difficult communication issues, are just some issues clients present with.
When I ask clients what they want from their relationships whether they are single or in a relationship, the one thing every client says is happiness. Happiness, is huge, yet can feel like it’s impossible to have or achieve.
How did I get into the world of relationships? Well I’ve had them, disastrous ones, good ones, I have relationships with my daughters, their partners good and not so good. However never before have I had a relationship with anyone like the one I’m in now.
So why is this different? , well I believe as I was single for some time by choice, divorced from my second husband, I consciously decided I had to figure me out before I tried to figure out how to have a relationship.
So I embarked on the best, fun journey I got to know me, I got to know me through my siblings, my friends, my kids. I figured why I did what I did, why I thought like I did and where it all came from.
I figured where my deal breakers where, the line to which I would not go below, What I would and would not accept in a relationship, and that is with anyone, family or partners, by discovering my deal breakers I could see how I had allowed myself to go below this imaginary line and drop my standards to meet the standards of others, just so I could remain in the relationship.
By getting to know me my level of care for me became paramount and my level of love and self-respect rose, and so now I do not go below the “ deal breaker line”.
My goal now is to explore with clients their ideal relationships, help them to look at who they are, what they bring to their relationships and challenge and change what does not work.
We cannot change what we do not know, so digging deep to find our true authentic self.
I have studied for years, to work in the field of therapy/ counselling. I have worked for years in the field of therapy/ counselling. I studied at the Tavistock where I trained to be a Couple Therapist. I worked for NHS as a therapist/ counsellor , throughout my career I was always asked what is your niche, everyone put my niche as couple work, but it didn’t feel right, then my friend said you’re like a relationship expert, and that’s when it came to me, my niche is relationships, whether with ourselves, our lovers, our friends ,our children. Indeed any relationships I believe I can bring my knowledge, my love and my passion, to all kinds of relationships, young or old.
Training and qualifications
•BA integrative psychotherapy.
•Certified CfD Couple Therapist.
•Family Therapy Certificate.
•Foundation Degree in Humanistic Therapy.
•Certified Rewind Practitioner for Trauma.
•Certified Rewind Trainer.
Couple £75. In clinic and Online.
Individual £50 In Clinic and Online.
Couples therapy EFT Gestalt Integrative Solution-focused therapy Transactional analysis Issues often worked with:
AddictionAnger/violenceAnxietyBereavementCouple relationshipsInterpersonal relationshipsSocial communicationTrauma Availability:
Within one week Therapy offered:
In personOn video Client groups:
IndividualsCouples Member organisations:
The Relationship Hub
Online therapy, works very well for couples, and is easier to access, there is less chance of having to be on a waiting list. we all lead busy lives, Online therapy can usually be accommodated to fit into our busy schedules.